Tagesseminar "Liebe und Beziehungsmuster" - IoPT Aufstellungen in Frankfurt

In the organizer's words:

Find clarity about yourself and your relationships

Are you looking for a deeper understanding of how your relationship patterns came about, why certain dynamics repeat themselves or how your choice of partner is influenced? A self-encounter according to IoPT (Identity-Oriented Psychotrauma Theory according to Prof. Dr. Franz Ruppert) can support you in recognizing inner parts, understanding yourself better and developing more awareness and personal responsibility.

First information about the self-awareness seminar
The seminar takes place in Frankfurt am Main and lasts one day (10:00-18:00) with breaks in between. Snacks and fruit, coffee, water and tea are included in the price.

The focus is on the method of self-encounter (constellation) according to the Identity-Oriented Psychotrauma Theory (IoPT) by Prof. Franz Ruppert. It can help you to perceive inner parts of your psyche or contexts, to understand yourself better and to develop more awareness and personal responsibility for your decisions.

What is an IoPT constellation / self-encounter?

The method of self-encounter has its origins in constellation work, but differs fundamentally from classic family or system constellations. The focus is not on the external system, but on the inner psychological structure of the person.

IoPT assumes that the psyche is divided into different parts as a result of traumatic experiences:

➤ Healthy parts
➤ Survival parts
➤ Injured parts

These parts can become visible in a self-encounter. For this purpose, parts of the psyche are placed in the room by resonance generators that interact with each other.

This can reveal inner connections that often unconsciously shape our feelings, thoughts and actions.

How does a self-encounter work?

➤ You bring in your personal concerns, e.g. a recurring relationship pattern or issues such as self-confidence, money, security or career.

➤ You formulate your concern in one sentence (usually positive, as a goal to be achieved), e.g.
"I want to be loved" or "I want security". Alternatively, choose three relevant words for your request, e.g. "I - relationship - money" or "I - career - decision", "I - self-care - time".

Subsequently, representatives are chosen from the group who stand for individual elements of the sentence or the chosen words and represent inner psychological parts.

➤ They take up their position in the room. They perceive how they stand, how they feel and what is shown internally. Sensations, bodily reactions, movement impulses, thoughts or emotions can emerge.

➤ The dynamic between you and the representative reveals how the inner parts relate to each other.

➤ The facilitator provides a safe framework and supports contact with the inner parts throughout the process.

➤ What emerges can enable a deeper understanding of one's own inner dynamics. Newly gained clarity can open up new perspectives and possibilities for action.

What does IoPT relationship work achieve?

Self-encounters are a powerful tool for making relationship patterns, attachment dynamics or recurring conflicts visible.
The constellation process brings feelings, beliefs and unconscious patterns into consciousness and opens up new perspectives. Step by step, inner options for action are expanded so that you can make more conscious decisions in love and relationships.

The method of self-encounter has its origins in constellation work, but is not a classic family constellation.
While family constellations usually depict family members or relationship systems on the outside, the focus of IoPT work is on the inside - on the various parts of your own psyche.

You work with a personal issue that is currently preoccupying you - such as a relationship issue, a feeling of inner tension or recurring patterns.
Other participants take on certain aspects of this concern on your behalf (e.g. "me", "my fear", "my desire for closeness") and thus visibly set your inner experience in motion.

What emerges in this process leads to a deeper understanding of how your inner parts are connected to each other - and where integration and self-compassion can arise.

The focus is on understanding inner connections. Emotions or emotional reactions may occur, but are not a must.

A constellation can support you in this,

• better understand yourself and your concerns/issues,
• become more aware of reactions and patterns,
• recognize connections that were previously only diffusely perceptible.

Many people then experience

• more inner clarity or orientation,
• more distance from stressful patterns,
• and a deeper understanding of themselves.

You can either set up your own issue or participate as a representative. Both roles enable deep insights, connection and healing experiences.

Typical topics/ concerns

• Recurring relationship patterns
• Attachment and partner choice dynamics
• Self-worth & inner strength in relationships
• Setting boundaries and self-determination
• Old hurts in love & partnership

Further information

Here you will find further information on the constellations, their process and other basic information: https://www.mariaravariu.com/liebe-und-beziehungsmuster-iopt-aufstellungen-frankfurt/

Procedure & agenda

• Arrival & introduction to the method
• Short break for snacks, fruit & tea
• First constellation + time for integration & reflection
• Lunch break (restaurant nearby)
• Second constellation + time for integration & reflection
• Short break for snacks, fruit & tea
• Third constellation + time for integration & reflection
• Final round & integration

Location & registration

• Location: Frankfurt Praxis am Zoo
• Registration by e-mail: info@mariaravariu.com
• Registration via WhatsApp: +49 176 66372455

Participation options

Option 1 - Own self-encounter / constellation

• Introduction to the method and preparation for your own concerns
• A complete personal self-encounter according to IoPT (approx. 60-90 minutes)
• Accompaniment by Maria Ravariu or Dieter Jakob (of your choice)
• Space for integration, exchange and reflection

Recommended for all those who want to explore their own concerns or issues in the context of an IoPT self-encounter.
The focus is on recognizing inner parts and unconscious dynamics that influence relationships, money and career issues as well as inner conflicts.

Option 2 - Participation as a representative

• Introduction to the method of self-encounter according to IoPT
• Participation as a representative in the self-encounters of others
• Opportunity to better understand constellation processes and dynamics through observation
• Each participation opens up new perspectives - even as a representative you can leave the day deeply touched and moved inside

Ideal for anyone who wants to get to know IoPT or loves IoPT, knows the added value of the representative role and wants to participate.
Even without your own concerns, participation can be deeply moving, trigger inner processes and open up new connections and perspectives on your own life.

Participation fee:

• Own request (constellation): 150 € incl. preliminary talk or 97.50 € (with 35% discount)
• Representatives: 40 € or 26 € (with 35% discount)
• Get a 35% early bird discount if you register at least 2 weeks before the event.

If you are genuinely interested in participating, but financial reasons are currently preventing you from doing so, please write to us - we will see what is possible together.

📚 Recommended literature

• Prof. Dr. Franz Ruppert - Love, Lust & Trauma
• Prof. Dr. Franz Ruppert - Who am I in a traumatized society?
• Prof. Dr. Franz Ruppert - My body, my trauma, my self

⚖️ Note

The constellations / self-encounters serve the purpose of self-awareness and personal development. They do not replace psychotherapy or medical treatment and are aimed at mentally stable people. In the case of mental illness or trauma-related disorders, it is advisable to seek professional psychotherapeutic support.

Upcoming dates for IoPT constellations

February 2026

➤ Sunday, February 08 - 10:00 - 18:00 (love and relationship patterns)
➤ Monday, February 16 - 18:00 - 22:00 (men's group)
➤ Sunday, February 22 - 10:00 - 18:00 (open topics)

March 2026

➤ Monday, March 16 - 18:00 - 22:00 (Identity)
➤ Sunday, March 22 - 10:00 - 18:00 (Love and relationship patterns)
➤ Monday, March 23 - 18:00 - 22:00 (men's group)

April 2026

➤ Sunday, April 05 - 10:00 - 18:00 (open topics)
➤ Monday, April 13 - 18:00 - 22:00 (men's group)
➤ Sunday, April 19 - 10:00 - 18:00 (love and relationship patterns)
➤ Monday, April 27 - 18:00 - 22:00 (Identity)

May 2026

➤ Sunday, May 03 - 10:00 - 18:00 (love and relationship patterns)
➤ Monday, May 11 - 18:00 - 22:00 (Identity)
➤ Sunday, May 17 - 10:00 - 18:00 (open topics)
➤ Sunday, May 31 - 10:00 - 18:00 (men's group)

June 2026

➤ Monday, June 08 - 18:00 - 22:00 (Identity)
➤ Sunday, June 14 - 10:00 - 18:00 (open topics)
➤ Monday, June 15 - 18:00 - 22:00 (men's group)

Further dates on the website: https://www.mariaravariu.com/liebe-und-beziehungsmuster-iopt-aufstellungen-frankfurt/

Accompanied by:

The IoPT constellations are led and accompanied by Maria Ravariu and Dieter Jakob. Both have trained directly with Franz Ruppert in Munich in IoPT (Identity-Oriented Psychotrauma Theory) - you decide intuitively who will accompany you in your constellation.

Maria Ravariu has a bachelor's degree in psychology, an ICF (International Coaching Federation) certified coaching training and IoPT (Identity-Oriented Psychotrauma Theory) training with Franz Ruppert in Munich. She works independently as a psychological counselor, ICF life coach and IoPT facilitator online and in Frankfurt. In addition to her practice, she is also active online, passionately involved in various projects, promotes reflection and authentic encounters and organizes regular, free spaces for personal exchange and growth.

Dieter Jakob is a coach, mentor and curator of the Abenteuer Mensch Foundation, which promotes human growth and mental well-being. He also has an IoPT training according to Franz Ruppert and has been intensively involved in psychology, healing and personal development for over 10 years. His main job is as General Manager/Sales Manager in the SAP division of a large corporation with responsibility for Europe. He is also involved online, with challenges, courses and regular meetings for personal development.

Price information:

- Own request (constellation): 150 € incl. preliminary talk or 97,50 € (with 35% discount) - Representatives: 40 € or 26 € (with 35% discount) Get a 35% early bird discount if you register at least 2 weeks before the event. Registration by e-mail: info@mariaravariu.com Registration by WhatsApp: +49 176 66372455