WHY SO SHY

In the organizer's words:

Cologne's first KINKY FLINTA* ONLY party 🖤

BACK back back AGAIN.

We are happy about everyone who wants to continue the WHY SO SHY journey with us and of course those who start it.

The WHYSOSHY is not just a party, but wants to bring FLINTA* together who want to be se3positive in their own way. We know that there are not many spaces where FLINTA* can express themselves freely without a "male gaze". Whether alone or as a group - you are welcome to celebrate diversity with us in Bogen 2 on 13.06.2026!

A special dress code is required for this special experience. No streetwear allowed! All body-types are beautiful, all body-types are welcome. We do not accept any body shaming. Everyone is welcome here.

We want to create an open-minded, tolerant and se3positive experience where all turn-ons and preferences are accepted as long as they adhere to the principles(Consent is Key) and the rules of our Awareness Policy. On site, a trained awareness team will always be available for you.

FLINTA *ONLY?

In the context of our kinky party, we would like to address FLINTA* only. We, as the WHYSOSHY team, strive to make our event as safe a space as possible for people from the FLINTA* spectrum. From the community for the community.

ATTENTION WE HAVE NEW TICKET CATEGORIES !!!

SOLI / CHOSEN FAMILY TICKET

We are aware that many in the queer FLINTA* community are affected by multiple marginalization. In a Chosen Family we support each other - regardless of financial means. Choose this ticket ONLY if you cannot currently afford another category. Please note that this category is reduced to a certain contingent!

SUPPORT TICKET

Many of you have told us that you would like to pay more to support the party. With this ticket you actively contribute to the maintenance of the party and thus to covering the running production costs.

HARD FACTS 🖤

PHOTOWALL

CANDYBAR

CHILL & CONNECT AREA

WELCOME SHOTS (NONALC. & ALC.)

2 FLOORS

TECHNO 🫦 House, Melodic -, Progressive -, Peaktime, Groove

AFRO 🫦 Hip Hop, RnB, Afrobeats, Amapiano

2 PLAYAREAS

1 PRIVATE CONCEPT 🫦 Separees for privacy

1 OPEN CONCEPT 🫦 An open playing area for everyone

AWARENESS TEAM 🔷 Available for you everywhere!

MORE SPECIALS TBA

FLINTA* is an acronym for women, lesbians, intersex, non-binary, trans and agender people. The asterisk (*) in FLINTA* indicates that other gender identities and expressions that are not explicitly mentioned are also included.